You Turning Me Off

I've been asked multiple times before what is my turn-off in guys, well here it goes :

 

Horrible Teeth !

Nothing is worst to me than some f'ed up teeth. At that point I'm scared if kiss you I might taste something nasty...ewwww ! Fix that

Body Odor !

If you smell like some days old eggs that's a BIG turn-off ! I love a guy that has his own scent that lingers after he has left

Clingy !

A clingy guy is an annoying guy. At first it will be cute then after a while you just become a pain in my ass.

Laziness !

You need to be able to get up off the couch and do something. Go to the gym and get a workout. No pot-belly over here !

Quotidian Lifestyle !

You have to change it up once in a while. I shouldn't be able to tell you what you did because I will get bored by you. Be spontaneous !

Baggy Clothing !

You clothes should not be 5x bigger than you. You look ridiculous. Make sure it fit but not tight

No Humor !

I'm the kind of girl that loves to laugh and have fun. You have to be able to take my jokes and shoot some right back at me. It make things fun

No Apparent Plans for the Future !

GOALS ! You should have some. Don't say I'm just taking it one day at a time. Sorry I need you to set some goals and make an attempt to achieve them

A Push Over !

I love to think that I wear the pants in the relationship but I would like for in reality both of us to wear the pants. You shouldn't be in the skirt while I'm in the jeans. That becomes a problem. Take some control but don't over step you boundaries because then I have to dismiss you =)

Disrespectful !

When you are trying to get at me the first thing you need to ask is what is my name. Don't say "Aye shawty what yo name is ?" Naw you need to be able to rephrase that in a respectful way sweetie. When I ignore you don't get mad and then turn ignorant folk 

So yeah these are like the basic things that I can think of that turns me off in a guy. In the words of Miss Keri Bby ! " You Turning Me Off "

  

don't you just love change.

ok I recently just made a few changes to the blog.
if you didn't know I hate keeping things the same for a long period of time...i get bored real easily
I love change !!!

list of changes that occurred..

• the new blog url is bombsup.blogspot.com
• the new blog name is my sweet dreams.
• i have a new layout also w/ additional gadgets 
• the new username is bombsup!

we will see how long these changes will last before i decide again to change it up =)
bare with me people, i know i have a problem =/

also i rearranged my room once again and i love it !!
only thing left is to paint the room during this break with the big brother...
i'm so ready for the new color...still contemplating which color though
i'm also an indecisive person haha

winter break.

yayy !!! officially on winter break !!
man its freezing in atlanta right now too...what a way to start the break
1st semester is over finally and i'm really not that pleased with myself but 2nd semester i'm not playing. i kind of slipped in a couple of classes not in a failing range or anything. [never that] but i think i got like 4 a's and 2 b's..ugh! Lord knows i hate settling for b's...

i need to take out my hair one of these days and get a new hairstyle. i'm still not sure what i want to get. i'm so indecisive it don't make no sense but i'm working on it..

i'm ready for Christmas and then the New Years !! 2010 is around the corner so that means letting go of 2009 and starting it off fresh. that means letting go of all the old crushes and starting a new line-up. gotta make new starters =). yes i'm running a team over here. gotta live up high school right but not getting serious with anyone. got a future i need to be working on so they gonna take the back sit anyways...sorry that's how it just have to be done. i'm so ready for it to come around because i can see big things happening in '10.

and it also means that my birthday will be about 3 months away =) [march baby]

don't jump stupid now.

girls these days have low self-esteem !!
so in one of my classes its just about boring and i only speak to like 4 to 6 people in there. today i walked out of class to socialize and knocked on the door for them to open it. when someone finally opened it the crew started laughing so i'm like what happened. came to find out ol' girl walked up and saw it was me and walked away haha. now this cracked me up.

now lets fast forward to like 30 minutes before that incident. we was walking back from the cafeteria and she looked two of my friends up and down and one of them was like "Who the fuck Keri looking at...". when this happened i was around the corner to begin with so i had nothing to do with it. so when we get in the class she trying to make a scene about it. getting loud but not specifying who she is referring to and we just back there laughing like is she serious ?? now she continues to pop off at the mouth for like an hour maybe to her little crew of nobodies like we suppose to care. i'm like you look dumb because obviously you not bad enough to speak up. she so call claim all year we've been talking about her. woooooo...hunny you not of that much of importance in our life please believe that. just because someone laughs does not mean that they are referring to you !! get some dam self-esteem about yourself !! don't go mouthing off to your friends like you are going to do something while you not going to do a dam thing. we just trying to avoid the drama because she is not worth suspension or anything.

i haven't said not a word about this girl but she want to act stupid with me. i'm just going to laugh it off and move on with life. Ooooo opening the door makes you bad now ?! bitch please haha

my insight for today..

My insight for today was:

Don't put yourself in a predicament that will lead up to something you had no intentions of.

I realized that today I for once I am going to listen to myself. My Friday is now open ! I don't have time for useless acts. I'm being a lady and doing what benefits me in life =)

Negro please like you really just wanted to chill haha

Hunny we just in High School

Now I understand that some people marry their high school sweetheart and what not but that is very rarely. Why do these girls think that they going to be with these no good boys forever?? I had to learn that you can't really stop someone from cheating they have to want to change for you. Hunny we just in high school get over it! I already know that once I graduate I'm probably not going to be messing with most of these boys that go to my school now. I mean lets be serious...once I graduate I need someone that's trying to make something out themselves. In high school I really don't care about all of that but once I enter the real world you can believe that's a necessity in a man and  most of these boys not even going to be doing anything once they graduate especially the ones that you are attracted to. If you find a good one then I am thrilled and happy for you but it don't go like that all the time. Let's stop trying to make these short term bf's long term. We just trying too hard at that point.

Live your life and stop looking for love in every boy you with. Just have fun!

Friends...How many of us have a TRUE one?

Don't listen to your crew, Do what works for you, Standin' back from situations gives you the perfect view.

 Jay-Z

Sometimes you can't necessarily depend always on what your friends say. The he said she said stuff that I'm going through right now is so much. Have you ever had a friend who doesn't like another one of your friends with a passion and you are put in the predicament where you have to choose?? Well I just recently went through that. When you are stuck between the two, you start to hear two different stories in your ear. "Oh I don't know why you still mess with her?" Ugh..because she is my friend just like you!

I talked to both of them and let them know that I am not about to go through this with them. So when I'm around keep the other person's name out your mouth. You know how things get started nowadays..."Oh she was just sitting here while "so-so" was dogging you out and she suppose to be your friend". I'm trying my best to just stay out of drama. Then I heard this quote and it changed everything. Instead I just chilled out and observed both of them because they were once friends. Then I realized who was really a friend. I hate people that when you and them fall out they go and put your business out on the street. That's some real dirty shit (excuse my language). You was never a friend to begin with and if you are capable of doing that to her then I know you are capable of doing that to me also. I think that is one of the reasons why I don't have many female friends. I try to keep them at a minimum. Also I trust specific people with specific things that pertain to my life.

Friends is a word that is used lightly these days. Make sure you know your friends because at the end they can hurt you if you truly don't know who they are.