Define Yourself...

I have one question...."What is it with females these days and claiming they the baddest or they whatever Lewinski/Minaj?? Barbie?"

Really though....It just tickles me to see these girls. My friends and I are always joking about it with each other with comments like "Oh oh there go Nicki Minaj" every time we see a girl trying so hard to be her lmao haha. We just can't help it...

What happened to finding your own identity? Being yourself? All of that has gone down the drain now. Its okay to like someone (i like nicki to a certain extent that is) but for you to want to be just like her?? I mean why her of all people?? You have women like Michelle Obama, Oprah, Alicia Keys, etc who are doing wonderful things out there but you choose to imitate Nicki Minaj. I just don't get it anymore really...

The Barbie things has really gone out of hand forreal !!! This is a facebook status my friend wrote...

Some folk just ignorant! y do girls call there self BARBIE? first off BARBIE is plastic there for she is fake. so dat mean u are fake and all ur shit is plastic and u will never find a real niggah cuz ur plastic ass always lookn for KEN!!! really doe

This had me rolling at the computer and she is absolutely right. Besides the fact that yesterday I met a boy named Ken lmao anyways.... Last time I checked Barbie was fake though. Hmmm

The next thing...
Hunny Lewinski/Minaj is not your last night. Take my name for instance, Nnenna. Girl will do this Nnenna LEWINSKI, Nnenna MINAJ, but I haven't seen a Nnenna OBAMA =).

All I'm saying is that it is time we graduate from the Nicki Minaj phase and find ourselves. Try to be the best you and not the best Nicki Minaj impersonator out there people! DEFINE YOURSELF !!

Dreaontv

I recently just created a Youtube account and thinking about making videos in the future...

But while on Youtube I ran across Dreaontv. This woman here is so inspirational. Someone that is beautiful on the inside and out. I will recommend this video to anyone. After listening to it you will look at things a bit different.

Go check her channel out!!

Body Image...

Recently I've had a couple of females come up to me and say I have a nice body. A female giving a compliment?? I thought that jst didn't exist anymore with so much hate going on lol. Well of course I said my thank yous and all. Then I started to laugh. Its funny that I once was so self conscious about my body. I hated everything about it and didn't feel so cute. I always had the slender athletic build and I hated that. I have to admit I wanted to big that thick chick lmao. But now that's all changed. I love my body! and everything on it. I know I don't have a perfect body but I'm perfectly happy with mine. I have my little curves and wear it proud lol. So many females go through that hating their body phase but if they never get over that then you are robbing yourself from the happiness you deserve....As long as you know that you are taking care of your body the best you know how. Not everyone is meant to be skinny!!! I hate seeing pretty thick women trying to lose weight to end up looking so awkward because it doesn't work for them. Stick to what works for you. For all the skinny girls stop trying to get thick lol and all my thick girls stop trying to get skinny. Love yourself!!!

"If Your Ass Was that Fat Nnenna..."- WT[H]eck

So today this boy told me "Man Nnenna if your ass was like that...". I've heard plenty of people tell me that I would be so called "bad" if I had a big butt because I have a pretty face or whatever. Then they would say oh don't get me wrong you got a good shape i'm just saying. Ugh!! I perfectly love my shape and wouldn't want another one. I rather attract a guy with my facial features than have an ass that will blind them. I'm not trying to say there is anything wrong with that because it really isn't. I'm just speaking from my point of view. I'm so tired of hearing that from people. I don't really let it bother me that much because I know i'm beautiful physically and mentally so petty remarks like that just reassures me lol.

Another phrase that people use with me is "You so pretty to be African.." WTF!!! How the hell Africans suppose to look?? I'm so tired of these ignorant people and their depiction of Africans. Okay I don't mind the ones that are actually trying to gain knowledge but the ones that just be stuck in that box irritates me. First of all Africans are just like anyone else. I got a reply for their ass next time..."You too pretty to be American..". I guess that image from the Discovery or Travel Channel blinds them into thinking that all of Africa is just like that. Naked people just running around when in actuality some places are in the process of development. They don't show that so people only see one side of the story. Then when they learn I was born in American, which makes me a citizen thank you very much, they try to use that as an excuse to why I look the way I am. Both my parents are African so regardless if I was born there or here I was going to look the same hunny. Like really open your mind and learn something new!!!

I just wanted to vex and get some things off my chest lol. Now back to my homework....

Why do you feel so Unpretty??

Wassup with this whole sexting phase. It seems like everyone is talking about it and i'm just like what's the hype. Being a Tyra Fan that I am lol. I was watching the show and that episode was basically on sexting and teens. At first I was like ummm ok yea then as they started getting into it I was shocked. She had grown women read the text messages that were sent by these teens. The youngest being thirteen who also admitted that she was bisexual. These young ladies where just too explicit. They took the phrase to a whole knew definition. Talking about putting this in their mouths and being on top and this and that. That was a shame. I felt bad for their mother's who was also on the show. They were crying their hearts out saying they raised them better and the usually. Some of these girls said it like they didn't care and what's the big deal about it. My whole thing is that when you put something out there to just anyone it is extremely difficult to get it back. You never know when it might come up in the future to harm you. One girl said she waste no time in sending nude pictures to boys and i'm just like are you serious?? Random guys?? Why?? Then they came out and admitted that they don't feel pretty and there is a lack of self-confidence so they feel as though when they send explicit pics then they get the young man's attention. This is so sad.

Personally I have had issues with this. For instance guys on myspace that upload their penis. You must really like the attention huh?? If you have to go naked or half naked to get attention from people then you have an internal issue. You have girls on myspace almost completely naked just so that they can get friend request from guys!!! How do you know the guy isn't just their for your body and what he can gain?? I dont know about anyone else but I would love for a guy to like me for my brain and beauty. I won't to talk to someone that don't just look at me as a sex object but also as a respectful young lady. Respect is something that is lacked in this generation. I still tell guys if you want to talk to me first of all you have to be respectful. Thats the most important thing.

Your body is something that you shouldn't just put on public display for the whole world to see. And I also feel as though people like putting the blame on girls only and not forget about the disgusting young "boys" that be displaying their male body parts. Save that for some desperate girl please. I'm a young lady that has respect for herself so approach me as such. I wish that girls would stop feeling so unpretty....go listen to TLC damn lmao. But seriously this is a very serious issue that can only be solved by mother's or guardians teaching these young girls about respect for theirselve. I know some do and the girls still do what they want well keep trying maybe one day it will set in.

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